You will only be motivated to make your life better if you care about yourself. That’s why you have to learn to love yourself.
When you ask what people truly long for, many respond that they wish to feel well inside. They want to feel happy, content, at peace and be without feelings of fear or sorrow. They also want to trust themselves, and know that they can count on themselves.
We often admire people who have a ‘personality’, which means they are original, confident and comfortable with themselves. They don’t need approval from others to feel good about themselves because they have something inside them that causes them to be happy with who they are.
So, in conclusion, you’d say people make efforts to devotedly take care of their inner world. Well, you couldn’t be more wrong.The sad truth is that the most of us keep ourselves small or give in to activities that decrease our joy of living.
We gladly invest in doubts, fears and worries, but hesitate to spend our time and energy on making our dreams reality. We want love, happiness, wellness and satisfying relationships, but are not prepared to do all it takes to make it happen. We’re willing to help improve lives of others but not our own.We give up our goals easily, but have the stamina to stay in unfulfilling situations.
We are, in a certain way, afraid of cherishing our lives and loving ourselves.
How can this be? Why don’t we make our inner happiness our number 1 priority? Why, instead of it, do we invest in keeping ourselves small?
However, we cannot go forward in our life until we understand that we MUST take lovingly care of ourselves, our life, and know, love and respect ourselves sincerely.
If you neglect your life and let yourself down, your life will repay you by making room for others to betray you and let you down. If you don’t invest in a relationship with yourself, others will hesitate to invest their love, attention, time, or money in you.
The way you treat yourself determines the way the world treats you. It’s that simple.
It’s because life isn’t a compilation of separated segments like love life, work, health or family.
It’s all about one and only thing: The relationship with yourself. Your whole life is basically about this relationship and it affects each aspects of your life, be it money, career, love life or health.
You Cannot Divorce Yourself
The bond with yourself is the most important relationship in your life, and it’s an absolute priority. It’s the foundation of good relationship with others.
You cannot divorce or leave yourself just as you cannot divorce yourself from your body or leave it. If you neglect it by not taking care of it properly, it will get sick. The same goes for you. In that case, parts of your life will become ill.
Each Problem Area of Your Life Warns You That You Don’t Own That Part of Your Life
So you need to take back what you’ve given up. But if you don’t love yourself enough, you won’t have a reason to take back what you’ve lost, because you won’t run after something you don’t like.
As a result, you won’t have the motivation to improve your life. You will only be motivated to make your life better if you care about yourself.
That’s why you have to learn to love yourself and know yourself.
Do you agree?
